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Before we step into the great tradition of choosing an engagement ring for you and your life partner, let’s learn what the meaning behind this age-old tradition –
I’ll start with an anecdote I’m sure you didn’t know 😉
The tradition was first discovered in Ancient Egypt – wearing a ring on the fourth finger was believed by Egyptians that this finger contained the “vena amoris” or the “vein of love” directly connected to the heart.
Later on, The Romans adopted this tradition and called it “annulus pronubis,” meaning “ring of betrothal.” Rings became a symbol of a legal agreement rather than just a token of love – giving it a more pragmatic aspect.
In medieval Europe, rings were often used in Christian wedding ceremonies to symbolize the union of a couple. These rings were often engraved with religious symbols, adding a spiritual dimension to the symbolism of commitment.
The 20th century saw a transformative shift with the popularization of diamond engagement rings, a phenomenon driven by a successful marketing campaign by De Beers. The iconic slogan “A Diamond is Forever” became synonymous with eternal love, forever changing the landscape of engagement ring traditions.
Today’s engagement rings showcase a diverse array of styles and designs, reflecting personal preferences and cultural influences. While some couples still gravitate toward traditional diamond solitaires, others opt for alternative gemstones, unique settings, or vintage-inspired designs, illustrating the contemporary embrace of individuality and creativity.
In recent years, the world of engagement rings has witnessed a delightful evolution with the introduction of His and His Engagement Rings designs – a modern and inclusive take on the classic symbol of love. Breaking away from traditional norms, these rings embrace diversity and celebrate the unique love stories of all couples.
The distinction between a men’s engagement ring and a men’s wedding band is rooted in the purpose and timing of each piece of jewelry.
Let’s start with the easy part – and then move to the DESIGN of his and his engagement rings.
| Men’s Engagement Rings – Purpose& Timing | Men’s Wedding Rings -Purpose & Timing |
| An engagement ring for men is typically given during the proposal or engagement. During the engagement phase, couples express their intent to marry and symbolize their commitment with engagement rings. In the case of same-sex couples, a common choice is to opt for matching engagement rings, known as his and his engagement rings. These rings are exchanged during the engagement ceremony, providing a special moment for the couple. The celebration of the engagement becomes an opportunity to emphasize equality and love, with each spouse receiving a stunning engagement ring to commemorate their relationship. Now, you might be curious about the design of these engagement rings – don’t worry, we’ll delve into that shortly! 😊 | For same-sex couples, the choice often involves selecting matching wedding rings, referred to as his and his wedding rings. These bands are exchanged as a part of the wedding ceremony, creating a unique and memorable moment for the couple. This celebration goes beyond the traditional norms, serving as a powerful affirmation of equality and love in the marriage. |
The design of the wedding rings becomes a significant aspect of this celebration. Couples may choose rings that reflect their individual styles and preferences, ranging from classic and timeless designs to more modern or personalized options.
To comprehend the process of selecting his and his engagement rings, and subsequently, his and his wedding rings, let’s first understand the fundamental differences in their designs.
There are no fixed rules, but here is what we’ve noticed based on popular trends we’ve recognized in celebrities and customer requests.
The main difference we notice between men’s engagement rings and men’s wedding rings is the type of stone.
Engagement rings tend to be flashier and daring, often featuring precious gemstones like sapphires, rubies, emeralds, and even the trendy purple amethyst. You’ll often find multiple stones set in channels or bezels to create that “wow” effect in his and his engagement rings.
But here, you also get to set your tone and go for the non-traditional lines, adding melee diamonds or small gemstones on the sides to create a sense of luxury.
The main difference is that in men’s wedding bands, we commonly see a center stone, whereas in men’s engagement rings – you can see multiple stones of the same carat size and more colorful.
Matching engagement rings provide the ideal opportunity to add some life and edginess to your his and his engagement rings – and the options are limitless.
Both partners can choose a gem that tells their shared story, or conversely, each spouse can choose a gem symbolizing their individuality or birthstone, celebrating their unique personality.
Idea: You can combine each other’s birthstones on your matching engagement rings, creating a personalized set of his and his engagement rings.
To read more about how to choose a gemstone for your engagement ring – check out our article – Birthstone Engagement Rings: Finding the Perfect Ring for Your Zodiac Sign.
Men’s engagement rings can also feature various engravings, depending on your style – whether it’s Celtic, tribal, gothic, or whatever suits you. Each type of engraving adds an extra touch to your personal style and character, making the engagement ring a small piece of art you wear every day.
Men’s wedding rings usually feature a prominent gemstone, such as a diamond or another precious stone, symbolizing the commitment to marriage.
But here, you also get to set your tone and go for the non-traditional lines, adding melee diamonds or small gemstones on the sides to create a sense of luxury.
As for the metal type – the most recommended are gold or platinum – as these are the most durable ones that can be worn for a lifetime.
It depends on your budget, of course, since platinum – known for being the most durable type of metal for wedding bands – is more expensive than other types of metal.
Gold is the preferred choice for wedding bands (14K/18K). The advantage of gold, beyond its durability, is that for matching wedding bands, you can decide on the type of gold and make your his and his wedding rings unique and modern by choosing rose gold, white gold, or the most popular one – black gold.
You can always decide you want to go traditional with yellow gold and add your personal touch with engraving and unique gems to give it that extra touch.
If you wish to learn more about how to choose matching wedding bands – check out our comprehensive guide: How to Choose the Perfect His and Hers Wedding Band Set
Remember that this is a once-in-a-lifetime purchase, and you should buy from a reputable jewelry store, one that is professional, has great reviews, and is an expert in customizing engagement and wedding rings – to get the highest quality and shopping experience.
Learn more about why and how to buy your wedding rings online in our ultimate guide: 6 Must-Know Essentials for Buying Men’s Wedding Bands Online.
Of course. Both engagement and later on, marriage are major happy events in your life that should be celebrated and cherished.
So why not treat yourself and your spouse to a piece of jewelry that brings you joy and also serves as a valued investment?
When clients consult with us, one thing we remind them to keep in mind is that before choosing a men’s engagement ring, they should consider the design of their wedding ring to ensure they complement each other—whether in terms of metal, gem, or engraving. The design should align to achieve a stylish overall look.
Our professional designers put lots of thought into designing Vidar Jewelry’s collection of his and his matching rings, aiming to provide various options to suit our client’s taste and style.
1. Minimalist with Bold: If you plan to wear these rings daily – Our recommendation is to choose one ring as the focal point, embracing a bolder design, while opting for a more minimalist look for the second ring.
This approach creates a sense of balance and ensures that both rings complement each other seamlessly, making a harmonious statement in your everyday style.
Take our Washington Ring for example. A showstopper among men’s wedding bands with sapphires and diamonds. Its dominance calls for a more minimalist ring to complete the ensemble.
This strategy allows each ring to shine independently while harmonizing as a cohesive set.
2. Completing Gemstones: When contemplating the gemstones for your engagement and wedding rings, you have the opportunity to pair two different kinds of gems, each carrying its own spiritual significance.
Alternatively, you may opt for the timeless allure of a diamond, known for its eternal symbolism (“Diamonds are Forever”), combined with a precious gem, resulting in a stunning and captivating piece that captures both attention and sentiment.
For instance, consider a men’s engagement ring adorned with emeralds and a men’s wedding ring featuring a central diamond complemented by emeralds on the sides.
This combination infuses personal meaning into each facet of the design.
3. Completing Style: When combining men’s engagement rings and wedding rings, it’s a thoughtful approach to opt for a specific style for both. A popular suggestion from experts in the jewelry industry is to consider a thematic coherence, such as pairing a Celtic men’s wedding band with a
corresponding Celtic men’s engagement ring.
This strategic alignment creates a harmonious and visually appealing connection between the two pieces,
symbolizing the continuity of commitment from engagement to marriage.
Moreover, if you’re already accustomed to wearing jewelry, we advise you to select rings that resonate with your existing sense of style. By doing so, your engagement and wedding ring set becomes an extension of your personal fashion, effortlessly complementing every look you choose.
This personalized touch ensures that the rings seamlessly integrate into your daily wardrobe, making them a cherished part of your everyday attire.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so here are five images of our most popular matching engagement rings to kickstart your inspiration:
2. Black & White Diamond Tribal – His and His Matching Engagement / Wedding Rings
3. 14K Black Gold Emerald Wedding Bands Set
4. 14K White Gold Blue Sapphire His and His Wedding Rings
5. 14K Black Gold Blue Diamond Matching Wedding Bands – Filigree Design
If you can’t find exactly what you are looking for, feel free to contact us.
We specialize in customizing wedding bands and offer an exclusive service to help you create your own wedding band. Work closely with our designer to bring the wedding band of your dreams to life.
To learn more about the customization process – Click here.
We hope this article has been helpful in helping you understand how to buy His and His engagement rings.
If you wish to get guidance on how to choose the style of your matching wedding bands read our comprehensive guide on How to Choose the Perfect His and Hers Wedding Band Set.
We’ve gathered some of the most frequently asked questions on the subject, and
our expert has provided answers for your convenience:
Q: Do both partners wear engagement rings?
A: Yes. When it comes to same-sex partners – it is common to see both partners wear
engagement rings. Many celebrities exchange his and his engagement rings at their engagement proposal, and then, later on, choose their matching wedding bands together.
This way they express their commitment to each other and commemorate the special
occasion of engagement.
Q: How to choose His and His Engagement Rings?
A: Before reaching out to a reputable jewelry store, we highly recommend perusing this
comprehensive guide on matching wedding bands. Familiarize yourself with key factors
such as the durability of the metal, type of gemstone, style, and more.
Afterward, select a reputable jewelry store known for excellent customer service and positive reviews to
ensure your investment is in good hands.
Q: How to Personalizing his and his engagement rings?
A: This is the fun part. You can get as creative as you wish.
From choosing a specific gem to set in your engagement ring that has a spiritual
meaning, to explore limitless engraving options like dates, quotes, your fingerprint, and
more – you can read our article about How to Personalize His and Hers Wedding Ring Sets? 5
Simple Ideas.
Q: How will I know What Size to Buy for My Partner?
A: The best way is to use a ring sizer, contact us and we can send you one for free.
Another option is to wrap a string or paper around the base of your finger, mark the point
where the ends meet with a pen, and then measure the string or paper with a ruler (mm).
Divide by 3.14 to get the diameter of the ring.
Go to the ring size chart and the closest measurement on the ring size chart is your ring size.
Q: Do Black wedding rings the right choice for his and his wedding rings?
A: Black wedding rings are a very popular trend – and one of our favorite collections. If you are
a couple who appreciate dark elegance – go for the black gold rings collection.
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unanswered?
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